Cheer to Tear

hi frndz..
After long time our association published a new post.
Anyway by god grace our association members got placed in good companies.
SBA_Abilash:i|Nautix
SBA_Balaji:CTS
SBA_kishore:TCS
SBA_Fairly:He is not willing in getting job.
Last but not least

SBA_Goms:TCS.

let me come to point.

This is year strated with some worries. We planned for something but it failed. We teased our class frndz.Most of our frnd likes but some one didnt. Any way let tem be. This is year is very boring for us. we dont know y...
any way bye..


Naangal Avargal Illai

Wedding

Yesterday we went to a marriage reception of our software engineering madam. It was amazing to see the whole class attending the reception. We planned to present a gift that must be worthful. We bought a cup and saucer for Rs.250. Our other friends presented an radha-krishna idol and wall hanger. We had a good dinner with idli,uthappam,etc..
We also met all our department staffs including our compiler design madam who is just married. What made us guilty was none of us attended her reception. How will she feel?
Doesn't it look unfair?

NO POINTING FINGERS ...

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
"If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too. "

"SBA's members doesn't blame any one by their mistake.We always be as friend to the one who considered us as friend & the one who considered us as a enemy."
Here after we wont bore you by posting like this.
Wait and see....

Enhancing Relationships ...

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. For example this is a real story.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
Dont trust the doubted one,dont doubt the trusted one.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship.

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